These, sweet, pink romantic roses laugh at heat and drought

Connie Cottingham • September 15, 2026
Pink rose in a sunlit garden with blurred greenery and a small table in the background

Thanksgiving week 2024: a fun, memorable family gathering that lasted for days in my niece’s new home in Atlanta. Still, I took the opportunity to hide in the guest bedroom for a moment because I had promised myself I would unapologetically find a treasure among the many Black Friday sales.


And what to my wondering eyes should appear?


Roses!


The treasure I found was four own-root roses from Heirloom Roses. Not electronics. Not fashion. Roses.


Yeah, surprised me too.


I recently wrote about the New Dawn rose that has now reached the top of my backyard arbor. The other three were planted closely together until I could build and fill more raised beds. Then numerous peonies came into my life, a few refugees from other beds had to be moved and, well, these three roses are still in the same spot and way too close together.


That won’t change anytime soon.


What also doesn’t seem likely to change is this insufferable heat and drought. Ten inches of rain in June, none since. Temperatures linger in the 90s and triple digits, and the forecast stays hot and dry through August 23

Pink roses in a sunny garden with turquoise chairs and a small table in the background

And yet these three roses look like this.


Zero spraying. A few Japanese beetles hand-picked off. Hose watering, some deadheading and plenty of harvesting for vases.


That’s it.


Let me introduce you to two soft pink, romantic roses that seem remarkably unfazed by this Arkansas summer.


Belinda’s Dream


I was familiar with Belinda’s Dream because it is one of Texas A&M’s Earth-Kind® Roses, a select group of roses proven to perform with minimal pesticides, fertilizer and supplemental water—in Texas heat and drought.


New Dawn made the Earth-Kind list, too. I remember when these tough, low-maintenance roses were frequently featured in garden writing 20 or so years ago. The list remains just as relevant today.


I trusted Belinda’s Dream enough to buy two shrubs.

Pink and yellow roses in a vase with a blurred bookshelf background

Quietness


With three sure winners in my cart, of course I had to try one rose completely new to me.


The photos of Quietness showed a warm, almost apricot center that I thought would be fun for flower arranging. I’m not seeing much of that in my flowers, although the bud in the foreground of this photo has a definite yellow-pink two-tone effect compared with the opening

Belinda’s Dream bud beside it.


Honestly, though, it is easier to point out how much these two roses have in common.


Both produce full, many-petaled, soft pink flowers with a romantic look. Quietness is the paler of the two. Both are fragrant. Both give me plenty of flowers to cut for the house, and deadheading encourages new flushes of bloom from spring into fall.

Most impressive right now, both have lush, healthy foliage despite weeks of miserable weather.


In June, Japanese beetles loved to hunker down inside the blooms and chew on the foliage. Hand-picking kept the population manageable. Beyond that, these roses have asked very little of me .


There are subtle differences between Belinda’s Dream and Quietness, but in my garden those differences matter less than what they share:


They bloom generously while asking remarkably little in return.


Both are welcome to stay.


Even if they remain crowded for a while longer.


And I still think I found the best Black Friday deal of 2024.

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